I’m sorry for not post about this article as I promised on IG. I posted about mental awareness among Youth. You can read it on previous post.
Also, since marriage topic is serious topic so I want to read many times what I write before I post it. Its sound serious but yes it is. So, on this post I will share my perspective of marriage.
If you asked me, how do I feel for this moment?
Honestly, I am nervous and don’t know if we can make it until
the big day. A lot of thing can happen, right? But, my prayers every day is we can make it and everything will go
smoothly.
What is marriage to
me?
Marriage is a covenant relationship between one man and one women
that gives a picture of Christ’s loving relationship with His bride, the
church.
What
makes a great marriage?
Since I’m too nervous for this marriage, I choose to spend my
every morning to read marriage devotional. It the only way I calm my
nervousness.
So, here what I learn so far from the devotional. What makes a
great marriage.
God did not create marriage to make you happy. Happiness might
be the by product of a godly marriage, but God never promised that marriage
will make you happy. No human relationship will ever fulfill you, bring you
ultimate happiness, or complete you.
If you don’t have a biblical view of marriage, then you are
likely to seek a way out once your spouse disappoints you. You will have unmet
expectations. Your spouse will let you down and you will let your spouse down.
When this happens, your foundational view of marriage will impact the actions
you take and the way you respond. Because God’s love for you is not dependent
on your actions, your commitment to your spouse shouldn’t be either.
Building the foundation to a life-long marriage requires a
willingness to tackle the hard topics with your significations other before the
vows are exchanged.
Now, I’m in the most important stage in my life.
I surrender everything to God. I don’t know what will happen. If
its happen, I am grateful and always do my best. If its not happen, I’m
thankful too. I always know God’s plan is better.
But, I secretly cry and down if its not happen ( sorry God). I
am human after all. What can I do now is pray and work hard to make it happen
and really get ready for this next level of life.
Finally, please bring us in your prayers. We surrender
everything to God.
Love,
Aya
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